Regarding ‘juicy details’. There’s a select number of Sr’s on my board that I take them at their word completely and they accept mine. If it’s good we say so, if not good we say that too, and only that. Specifics are handled by pm’s and email and not published openly. No sense in titillatating the lurkers who never contribute and local leo with details.
I’m a damm yankee btw :)[/QUOTE]No intrusion at all, though you make way too much sense for some of the folks here — you damn yankees.
[QUOTE=Gansett]Regarding ‘juicy details’. There’s a select number of Sr’s on my board that I take them at their word completely and they accept mine. If it’s good we say so, if not good we say that too, and only that. Specifics are handled by pm’s and email and not published openly. No sense in titillatating the lurkers who never contribute and local leo with details.
The debate over « juicy details » will ALWAYS continue. The way you guys handle it is very good. Problem down here is that there are so many egos and bullshit that your approach wouldn’t work here. There’s too much of a sense of entitlement that some members get. based only on their number BlackFling of posts. Men with little boy mentalities.
The other problem is that some think that if we don’t disclose details here. well. we’ve shut down the process! Stopped LEO in their tracks. I’ve always been of the mindset that there is no reason details can’t be posted. The PM thing, between mature people, can be a good thing but in Orlando it’s just an ego driven boys club. And they act like boys. LOL.
[QUOTE=Goddess]I’m not sure exactly how I got put into a category of « playing games ». You must feel that your word games would intimidate me or perhaps you thought im not intelligent enough to notice your connotations. So I pose the question, exactly who is playing games?
No side is going to convince the other
And why exactly are you cussing at me?[/QUOTE]It seems like a game to me. You withhold information from some and share it with others based upon whether or not you deem them worthy of putting in their dues here. It seems like high school nonsense to me. It’s the same kind of popularity game that children play.
People come here for information. Sadly, some folks get off on making others jump through hoops to get the information they have. Personally, I don’t care to play that game. If I have something to share, I share it with the whole board. None of this crap like « trusted seniors PM me for details. »
I have absolutely no desire to intimidate you. I don’t know you and don’t expect ever to meet you. I don’t receive any benefit from trying to intimidate anyone. All I truly desire is that folks just stop with the bullshit games. There are some folks here who want to control the flow of information, who tell others that they’re saying too much, etc. For some it’s paranoid delusion, but for others, it’s just to make them feel smug or superior. I pity the former and abhor the latter.
I placed the comment to have better use of this forum and for the members to appreciate the real providers! the ones that are trusted and we will have less not so trusted ones!
If I want more details, I PM. If the guy is comfortable answering a few questions. He does. If not, that is OK too.[/QUOTE]Great. Then it’s settled. Happy mongering everyone.
2. No Forum Members have ever been detained, questioned or investigated as a result of information that they or others posted on this Forum.
This is a very old argument. What I find offensive are those who tell others what to do. That’s just childish and arrogant.
I think it should be up to the provider to determine how detailed she wants her review to be. If you’ve had a great session, just ask her how much info she’d like posted about the experience. That way, the most important person in this deal (the provider) gets exactly what she wants. Ladies, any input here?[/QUOTE]
Personally, I think that kind of attitude is a lot of bullshit. It’s something I don’t understand, so I wanted to as you straight up about it. Just what the fuck does someone have to do in order for you to deem them worthy of information?
-[b][color=red]The purpose of this Forum is to facilitate the exchange of information between men who are looking for sex with women. [/color][/b]
[QUOTE=Gansett]Just my 2¢ but asking a provider « WTF » isn’t going to endear you to her. YMMV. Remember respect is a 2 way street.